For many Chinese language learners, family titles in Chinese are for sure a pain in the neck. It might rack your brain just trying to say “uncle” or “cousin” right. In Chinese, they give each family member a title. From your mother’s side to your father’s side, to each generation, and gender…etc. For this reason, Chinese family tree is unquestionably difficult. Today, we’ll make a list of most commonly used family titles. Don’t worry, here’s a small tip. (Just save this as a bookmark and pull it out to review right before Chinese new year dinner.)
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Great Grandparents/ Grandparents
Father’s side – | ||
Great grandfather | 曾祖父 | zēngzǔfù |
Great grandmother | 曾祖母 | zēngzǔmǔ |
Mother’s side – | ||
Great grandfather | 曾外祖父 | zēn wàigzǔfù |
Great grandmother | 曾外祖母 | zéng wàizǔmǔ |
Grandparents
Father’s side – | ||
Grandfather | 爷爷 | yéye |
Grandmother | 奶奶 | nǎinai |
Mother’s side – | ||
Grandfather | 外公 | wàigōng |
Grandmother | 外婆 | wàipó |
Parents
Father | 父亲/ 爸爸/ 爹 | fùqīn/ bàba/ diē |
Mother | 母亲/ 妈妈/ 娘 | mǔqīn/ māmā/ niang |
Father in Law – | ||
Husband’s father | 公公 | gōnggōng |
Wife’s father | 岳父 | yuèfù |
Mother in Law – | ||
Husband’s mother | 婆婆 | pópo |
Wife’s mother | 岳母/ 丈母娘 | yuèmǔ/ zhàngmǔniáng |
Uncle
Father’s elder brother | 伯父/ 伯伯 | bófù/ bóbo |
Father’s younger brother | 叔父/ 叔叔 | shúfù/ shūshu |
Father’s sister’s husband | (大/小) 姑丈 | (dà/xiǎo) gūzhàng |
Mother’s elder brother | 大舅舅 | dà jiùjiu |
Mother’s younger brother | 小舅舅 | xiǎo jiùjiu |
Mother’s sister’s husband | (大/小) 姨丈 | (dà/xiǎo) yízhàng |
Aunt
Father’s elder sister | 大姑姑/ 姑妈 | dà gūgū/ gūmā |
Father’s younger sister | 小姑姑 | xiǎo gūgū |
Father’s brother’s wife | (大/小) 婶婶 | (dà/xiǎo) shěnshen |
Mother’s elder sister | 大姨妈/大姨母/大阿姨 | dà yímā/dà yímǔ/dà āyí |
Mother’s younger sister | 小姨妈/小姨母/小阿姨 | xiǎo yímā/xiǎo yímǔ/xiǎo āyí |
Mother’s brother’s wife | (大/小) 舅妈 | (dà/xiǎo) jiùmā |
Husband/ Wife
Husband | 老公/ 丈夫/ 先生 | lǎogōng/zhàngfū/xiānshēng |
Wife | 老婆/ 妻子/太太 | lǎopó/ qīzi/ tàitài |
Siblings
Siblings | 兄弟姊妹 | xiōngdì zǐmè |
Older brother | 哥哥/ 大哥/ 老哥 | gēgē/ dàgē/ lǎo gē |
Younger brother | 弟弟/ 小弟/ 老弟 | dìdì/ xiǎodì/ lǎodì |
Older sister | 姊姊/ 大姊/ 老姊 | jiě jie/ dà zǐ/ lǎo zǐ |
Younger sister | 妹妹/ 小妹/ 老妹 | mèi mei/ xiǎo mèi/ lǎo mèi |
Brother in law | 姊夫/ 妹夫 | jiě fū/ mèifu |
Sister in law | 嫂子/ 弟妹 | sǎozi/ dìmèi |
Cousin
Father’s side – | ||
Cousin | 堂哥/ 堂弟/ 堂姊/ 堂妹 | táng gē/ táng dì/ táng zǐ/ táng mèi |
Mother’s side – | ||
Cousin | 表哥/ 表弟/ 表姊/ 表妹 | biǎo gē/ biǎo dì/ biǎo zǐ/ biǎomèi |
Nephew/ Niece
Nephew | 姪子/外甥 | zhí zi/wàishēng |
Niece | 姪女/外甥女 | zhí nǚ/wàishēngnǚ |
Son/ Daughter
Son | 儿子 | érzi |
Daughter | 女儿 | nǚ’ér |
Son in law | 女婿 | nǚxù |
Daughter in law | 媳妇 | xífù |
Grandchildren
Grandson | 孙子 | sūnzi |
Granddaughter | 孙女 | sūnnǚ |
As can be seen, Chinese people values a lot in family relationships and roles. Every person in the family has their own title as they’re a part of the family member. Then again, it might be confusing for a non-native Chinese speaker to memorize every title of the Chinese family tree. Just start from the basics, like parents, siblings, and cousins. I’m sure after a few Christmas/ Chinese new year dinner, you’ll stick all those complicated titles in your head!
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